One final observation from Love and Respect by Eggerichs:
It's true that women have intuition and that men should listen to them. It is also true that women have blind spots and need the insight of their husbands... (229)
Your husband will feel you appreciate his insight and counsel when... you recognize his problem-solving approach as his male brand of empathy... you sometimes let him 'fix things' and applaud his solutions... you admit that you can sin and thank him for his perception and godly counsel. (237)
I think this is cool. One of the most annoying characters in advertising is the bumbling idiot McCains' husband who never has a clue and is always tolerated and patronised by the ever-competent wife.