4. Do something. Don't wait for someone else to teach you how to act in a loving and thoughtful manner towards others,take initiative. Start by praying, of course, for prayer is a concrete, valuable, world-changing act. But then think what else might help. We worry about interfering, when most of the time we should be more worried about inaction. A text message, a phone call, an email, a card. Do something
... and then write down in your diary to do something again some time in the future.
... and then write down in your diary to do something again some time in the future.